Ok, I'm back.

Hi friends! 

After a way too long of a break, I've decided to start publishing on my blog again. Mostly because I never stopped writing on the backend of this blog, but couldn't get myself to release the most vulnerable and open parts of myself online. 

Slowly, I think I'll start posting those unpublished drafts. For now, let me give you a few life updates that have happened in the last couple of years since I've been away from here because it feels like everything has changed while nothing has changed at all. Isn't that how it always is though?


  1. I've grown closer to the people I love. These connections deepened and more memories have been made with friends and family.
  2. There was a period in my life (2020) where I lived life to the fullest. I didn't work. I didn't commit to any relationships. I didn't say no to anything fun or new. It was fun, but I'm so thankful it was for a limited amount of time. 
  3. I traveled - of course if you know me, this is the least surprising. I visited Texas, Colorado, New York, DC, Vermont, California, Hawaii, Turkey, and other places I needed to see and experience. I did fall in love with New York, everything it had to do, the fashion, and how it really never slept. It was v Aani if I do say so myself. 
  4. I also found myself more. I learned to love parts of myself that hadn't been loved by others. I forgave myself for mistakes my younger self might have accidentally made. I prayed with love - not fear and found myself closer to religion and spirituality more than ever before. I enjoyed my own company the most and became the most independent I've been. 

  1. I finally got qualified in Date & Love Coaching. I loved learning about relationships and when the opportunity presented itself I decided enough was enough and I wanted to help make relationships easier for everyone that wanted to. I took (and still take) on clients and help them find the truest and most fulfilling love of their lives. I teach women how to love themselves and romanticize every part of their lives. Most of all, I teach partners how to compromise, avoid conflict, and rise above their egos.  
  2. I started a new full time role doing what I love. I'm still doing Marketing in the Technology industry. This new company is really adorable to me and I'm throughly enjoying it. There are challenges, but I think those help me grow. This is a company I've always looked up to, so I'm happy to be here. I don't have everything figured out but this much I know.
  3. I moved further away from Blogging/Influencing and deeper into Content Creation. I really loved taking photos but didn't think they fit with my online Influencer account. I decided I could do that  (what I loved) and still make a great income doing it - so I did. 
  4. I had my first 6 figure collaboration, then another one, and then another one. I'm so happy I never stopped negotiating with brands and always demanded to get paid for the work I was putting into content creation, influencing, and having my own brand. 

It's crazy to me that I feel so good! I think the break was needed to find myself and love my live even more than before. 

Sending you lots of love, and I hope you forgive me for leaving you for this long. I'm back now.

- Aani

Let's Talk About Faith

If you know me, you know I'm not one to talk about controversial subjects. Actually, I avoid politics and religion all together. I've been known to smile and nod politely until I can quickly escape the conversation or change the subject. 

9 New Year Resolutions for 2019

Hi loves,

I've been gone for a good minute from my blog, haven't I? What can I say, life got a little crazy this past year. As I reflected on the highs (there were a lot of those!) and some lows (those were very low), I realized I have more goals than ever for this coming year. It's not just the fact that I'll be turning 25 this year, which OMG, is actually the craziest thing ever because that was the age where I thought I would have my entire life together. A big L O L to that. I feel like no matter how put together my life is, there's always parts of it I'm working to improve. Which is why these resolutions at the beginning of the year keep me so in check. So here are mine for this year, and I'd love to hear yours too!

Cozy Sweaters Are Calling My Name - #FallOOTD

Hellooooo beautiful readers! I've missed you! I've been a super busy bee lately! Life has just changed so much this year. It's my first time not having to go to class every single day, and that means I'm officially adult-ing. I'll make a whole separate post about what I've been up to and what I'm working on at the moment, but for now, enjoy this Fall OOTD!

A Stay-cation at the Embassy Suites by Seattle North Lynnwood

Hellooooo beautiful readers!

Last weekend, I planned a super fun stay-cation (like a vacation, but you stay closer to home) with my mom and sister. It was one of the most fun weekends we've had in a really long time! We decided to go explore an area a little ways away from our home so we stayed at the newly-renovated Embassy Suites by Seattle North Lynwood.

Here's what we did that weekend and some of my favorite parts from it!